“There are these two young fish swimming along, and happened to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods to them and says, ‘Morning boys, how’s the water?’ ...... Read More

You suspect that you inherited some unhealthy emotional and relationship patterns from your parents.  If you did, you wonder what they are and how they affect your work and relationships. ...... Read More

Have you ever experienced discomfort because you were a minority?  I recently read “Between the World and Me,” by Ta-Nehisi Coates, who wrote powerfully and poetically about his experience as...... Read More

What are the different expressions of love?  I never really understood my parents’ daily verbal wrangling, which seems to have the same pattern after 40+ years of marriage.  Over time,...... Read More